Une femme d’un certain âge


A while ago, I started following a blog by Tish Jett, A Femme d’Un Certain Age. Jett, a journalist, moved to France three decades ago. She met and married a Frenchman and established her life there. Over her years in la belle France, she made close friends with a number of Frenchwomen and picked their brains for their style and beauty secrets. Forever Chic is the result of Jett’s insider research and observation.

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As the publicity blurb for the book says:

“For any woman who last saw forty on her speedometer comes a sparkling new primer for aging—the French way—with grace and style. Frenchwomen of a certain age (over forty) are captivating and complex. They appear younger than their years and remain stylish throughout their lives. They look at birthdays as a celebration of a life well-lived and perhaps a good reason to go shopping before they dress to perfection for a celebration of another anniversaire. American-born journalist and blogger Tish Jett has lived among the French for years and has studied them and stalked them to learn their secrets. Exploring how their wardrobe, beauty, diet, and hair rituals evolve with time and how some aspects of their signature styles never change, Jett shows how Frenchwomen know their strengths, hide their weaknesses, and never talk about their fears, failures, or flaws. After all, in France, beauty, style, and charm have no expiration dates!”


At first, I was afraid Jett was about to trot out the same old platitudes – quality over quantity, understatement over flash – but the book soon got down to business.  Jett had plenty of fresh advice to share. Some of it was simple to implement and budget friendly; other advice was for those with substantially deeper poches than average.


Take some of those low cost ideas for starters: Jett recommends that you boil a loofah mitt before using it to soften the fibers. As one of the skin gurus she consulted in her research said, “skin only understands when you speak to it gently.” Jett also recommends using cornflower water as a gentle toner. To refresh tired eyes, soak cotton pads in it and then chill them before lying down with them on your eyes.


Some of the higher cost alternatives included a massage that has a list price of 1,100 Euros and that reduced Jett to tears. At one point, the masseuse put her fingers in Jett’s mouth and applied strong pressure to the roof of her mouth. Yuck! A more controversial recommendation is mesotherapy, a no-blade alternative to cosmetic surgery. Jett underwent tiny injections of hyaluronic acid and vitamins into the mid-layer of the skin in the name of research. She touts its ability to stimulate collagen and elastin production and says the results were worth it. As far as the medical community is concerned, however, this is a procedure to approach with great caution. It’s unregulated, and there’s no way of knowing what’s in the practitioner’s needles. There’s no clinical evidence of improvement in patients and some countries have banned the practice.


And, of course, no book entitled Forever Chic would be complete without a section devoted to fashion. I liked Jett’s recommendation (based on interviews with a host of chic French friends) to invest in a wardrobe that consists of 85% neutrals and 15% fantasy in color, cut, or details. Think of a forever chic Frenchwoman and head of the International Monetary Fund Christine Lagarde in one of her neutral suits with a knockout Hermès scarf – the formula certainly holds true. I also enjoyed her account of a session with a personal shopper at that iconic Paris department store, les Galeries Lafayette. She asked the shopper to pull together outfits that would allow a woman to build a classic French wardrobe. The woman presented many variations of outfits on mannequins during her session with Jett. I’d never thought of using a personal shopper in this way, but I was intrigued to possibly try that myself someday.

So if you, like me, are une femme d’un certain âge (oon fam duhn serten asje), I think you’ll enjoy both Jett’s book and her blog for lots of fashion and flair with a French touch.

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About Patricia Gilbert

Patricia Gilbert is a French teacher. She's Canadian, lives in the United States, but dreams of living in France. Follow her on Instagram @Onequalitythefinest and on Twitter @1qualthefinest.
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2 Responses to Une femme d’un certain âge

  1. Ho appena finito di leggere il suo libro Chic Toujours e l’ho trovato bellissimo, complimenti !

  2. Pingback: Le palmarès | One quality, the finest.

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